In the aftermath of a failed relationship, thoughts of “would have, could have, should have” often linger, casting a shadow of longing and regret. It’s the yearning for what once was, coupled with the desire to still be with that significant other at this very moment. The mind replays scenes of past happiness and contemplates the possibilities that slipped away. It’s a delicate balance between reminiscing about the past and wishing for a future that never materialized.

“Pain of an Almost” by Dan Hochman is about that condensed feeling of longing and regret that can catch you unawares any time of the day and you just can’t help but wish “back then” was “right now” instead.

With deeply bluesy, soul, and folk sounds, Colorado-based singer-songwriter Dan Hochman’s song captures the universal experience of heartbreak and the struggle to let go, all of this with the hope that this song -along with others in his forthcoming album, ‘Shadow Blues’- become ‘medicinal’ for all aching hearts in need of catharsis.

“‘Pain of an Almost’ is a reflection on the completion of my most recent relationship. It encapsulates the strange and eviscerating experience of sharing profound love with someone, while simultaneously being unable to make it work.”

The song carries a unique sense of introspection, achieved through a delicate interplay of different sonic layers. While the initial focus is on the acoustic guitar and captivating lead vocals, the track evolves with the addition of ethereal cello, violin, and synth elements, resulting in a rich and immersive atmospheric experience.

Through his lyrics, Hochman expresses the emotional turmoil of a failed relationship and the lingering pain of missed opportunities. He describes the feeling of being left alone in a cold and empty space, longing for answers and understanding. The imagery of being “cut open” and bleeding metaphorically represents the emotional vulnerability and heartache experienced in the aftermath of the relationship. The repeated refrain of “better luck next time” and “darling we tried” reflects a sense of resignation and acceptance of the situation, despite the lingering pain and unanswered questions.

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